STING
About this event
A men’s spanking party built around impact, connection, and a well-earned red ass.
STING NYC is a men’s spanking and impact play party where hands, paddles, straps, and other implements take center stage.
From playful swats and over-the-knee spanking to heavier impact and extended punishment scenes, STING gives you room to explore spanking at your own intensity and pace.
The Experience
Spanking is the heart of the party, but BDSM play is welcome.
Give, receive, switch, watch, learn, negotiate pickup play, or simply spend time around other men who share the interest.
Impact can stay focused on spanking or expand into other negotiated BDSM play, including restraint, sensation, power exchange, and related scene elements.
The space includes 12+ spanking stations and equipment for a range of positions and scenes, along with a separate social area for conversation, downtime, and aftercare.
Sex is not the focus of STING, but sexual activity may be incorporated into a scene when it has been clearly negotiated before the scene begins.
Who It's For
For gay, straight, bisexual, queer, and trans men who connect, play, or cruise with men.
STING is a men-centered, men-only play spaceand is not a mixed-gender party.
Whether spanking is brand new to you or something you’ve explored for years, there is room to participate at your own level.
How the Afternoon Flows
1:00 PM · Doors Open
Check in, settle in, meet people, talk through interests, and begin negotiating any scenes or connections you may want to explore.
1:45 PM · Welcome + Room Agreements
A brief review of expectations, consent, and the flow of the afternoon.
After the welcome, negotiated spanking and impact play begins throughout the room.
Coming later? You're still welcome. Essential room agreements will be reviewed with you at check-in.
6:00 PM · Party Ends
Come Ready to Play
Bring spanking implements, toys, gear, lube, safer-sex supplies, or comfort items you plan to use.
A shareable snack or drink for the communal table is welcome but never required.
Alcohol is welcome in moderation. No illegal drugs.